SEXUAL HEALTH CONSULTANT

We all have different unique erotic fantasies or stimulations that can make us excited, whether we are female or male, straight, bi-curious, bisexual or holibi, young or old. A healthy libido, and balanced intimate activity are ideal, happiness-making and de-stressing. Unfortunately, this is not always obvious (anymore). A prolonged lack or absence of an active libido, when not of one’s own choosing, can become pernicious to one’s physical and mental well-being, as an individual, or also as a couple. In individual counseling, an open safe conversation, with a supportive search for the solution can very quickly lead to good results. In couple counseling, allow an open guided conversation to express feelings to the partner in a safe way, and together as a couple build the right solution.

Reasons for lowered individual libido such as: stress, no time, menopause, change of body, long-term illness, “being too old for intimacy,” … are solvable and not an excuse. Even within couples there can be a difference, where in different individuals have different needs such as: from frequency of activity, fantasies or titillating situations, toys, foreplay, positions … to libertine openness. These differences can also be resolved in which the couple can grow together toward, taking into account individual needs or limitations. For libertine couples, the counselor also helps with safe arrangements, underlying anxious feelings and possible changes in one of the partners.